“I believe that one defines oneself by reinvention. To not be like your parents, to not be like your friends- to be yourself, to cut yourself out of stone.”
-Henry Rollins

Nobody sentenced you to the life you are leading. Nobody made you take that job. You are able, still, to do anything you want; to be anybody you wish to be. It’s messy and rough, with a lot of failures along the way. You can get there.

You have two choices- make an effort to reinvent, or not.
If you choose to do the latter, please don’t make it anybody else’s problem. Your universe has enough on their plates already.